Disclaimer

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***UPDATE***

as of July 2009

I have recently decided that I am NOT going to remove these posts. I have decided that this is my blog, my way of getting things out and having a place to put them, I have heard that this blog has helped others and that some enjoy reading about it because their lives are similar. So, I have decided that I AM going to leave ALL the posts on here that were orginally here and that I am going not censor myself on here either. There have been things that I have wanted to write but I didn’t because of who may or may not read them and I didn’t want to offend, annoy, embarass, anger or hurt anyone’s feelings with what I write. I have been thinking about it a lot since then and I have decided that to censor myself in this way, gives others control over my life and I was falling right back in to the same old pattern from before. Thinking about other’s feelings more than my own. I think that it is about time that stops now. So… the old posts are back… I am going to write about the things I want to write about, I make no apologies for what I write and if it does hurt anyone’s feelings, for that I am sorry. I don’t mean to hurt anyone and I don’t mean to “be mean” or mean any harm but I have to write what I feel and think, otherwise, I am likely to stress out and that isn’t good for any of us.
Smile.. it’s not that bad most of the time, anyway

I have been asked many times over the years how do I manage to keep it all together and stay so strong. Well, I have to admit that there are times that I am not so strong. I have days just like anyone else that make me scared and wonder how I can manage to get through one more task.

This website has helped me with what has been happening in my life. Not only with the things that I have been through with Jamie but with other things as well. I need to stress something about this website. I have a lot of people that are coming on here to inquire about the book and even puchase the book. I am very happy to have those visitors and can hardly wait to start getting feedback on what they have read. I also have to say that this site has gotten me through a lot of tough times and has provided me with a place to vent my frustrations. EVERYTHING I have written and will write on this site is TRUE and correct. I also have to say that EVERYTHING on here is also MY POINT OF VIEW and is not meant to hurt anyone or make anyone look bad. I created this site for my own personal use and never really intended on it becoming as big as it has. I never thought I would finish my book and advertise it on here or that anyone that I ever wrote “about” would ever even read it. I started getting emails and comments from other women that have read my site and were experiencing the same things as I had been through and were thanking me for posting these events and being so truthful, honest and vulnerable. I have had other bloggers write about this site and recommend it to their readers (along with a box of tissues) because of this.

I am including this disclaimer on my site now because there have been some posts that I have currently made unavailable. I have not deleted them, nor will I delete them from the site, but for now they cannot be viewed. I did this not because of any request, but because I have decided to remove them for now because of their content. They ARE 100% truthful and were written in my point of view and I stand behind them 100%. So, why have I removed them? Because I want to focus on the good and positive that is happening right now. Don’t get me wrong, I will post about that again should the need arise to do so, but for now, I have chosen to forgive the behavior and the person that brought a lot of misery and pain to my life. I have taken back control of my own life and my own destiny that I had once let be taken from me. I am taking back what is mine and I am finding the strength to move forward. Plus, I am putting it all down on paper now. I guess I am working on a second book.

I do have to say one more thing on this topic before I go. We (I) live in the United States of America where we have freedom of speech. On the personal side of this blog, I will continue to post things that happen (with out names) and if what I write offends anyone, I apologize for the offense, but not for what I write. I will stand behind what I write and if anyone cannot handle the posts, you don’t have to read them. There are a LOT of people that this site helps and that DO want to read them. This site is for them too.
‘Nite

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